Archive for August, 2011

She Was Too “Slutty” The 1st Time…..

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

So my favorite Relationship Host and Blog “Epiphany Sessions” tagged me in the following post on Facebook: “Dear ES I met this beautiful woman and thought I could see something with her but when we had sex it was too slutty for the first time which caused me to view her differently!”.

Now as always when I read or hear something like this, I carefully read it several times before responding to this very strange male who clearly has lost his mind! My response “What the hell is too slutty? Some dudes are too sensitive, scary, and looking for a square in the bed that they can train….. Man she went all in on you showing you how she could please you, and to show… you the freak in the sheets that ur getting! Ever heard the saying, “Lady in the Streets, but Freak in the Sheets?” Apparently not Simple Sam, so move on cause you need a Virgin Mary playa….. Too Slutty? Wtf! #menprayforthat”

Was I wrong? Thoughts??

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Why Should She Date “Her Own Kind?”

Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011

I was listening to a conversation between several beautiful, well spoken, successful sisters and the topic of dating outside their race came up. Immediately the guys around the table looked at one another and tuned in. One of the ladies said, “I love the brothers, but you all need to come with it”, and she went on to say that she keeps her options open and is currently dating outside her race. Another said, “Girl you need to go to Italy, because those Italian guys love them some sisters!” It was fun to listen to what black women had to say on dating outside their race, as they are normally the one’s having to answer questions about black men who date outside their race.

My view on the conversation these ladies were having is that a black woman can date a Black, White, Hispanic, Asian, or Martian man, and I’ll support it 100%! I mean what does it matter? Times have changed, and for those who can’t adapt to the change I advise you to crawl up under a rock and stay there. True indeed our country has gone through some trying times in the race wars, but it comes a time when being happy matters more than the color of an individual’s skin. I understand that people want to keep with “THEIR OWN KIND”, but what if “YOUR OWN KIND” has run its course and you are tired of the constant heartbreak?

My advice to everyone is DATE OR MARRY WHOM EVER YOU PLEASE REGARDLESS OF RACE, ETHNICITY, RELIGION, COLOR, CREED, ORIGIN, PLANET, ETC!!!! LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!! THOUGHTS?

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Men Hold The Key

Tuesday, August 16th, 2011

I know as soon as you read the title of this post, you automatically think that I’m on some male chauvinist stuff today. Actually I’m not, it’s just a little truth serum for the women of the world who think they are the key holders to whom and when they marry. You hear it all the time from the ladies, “The man “I” marry will be required to have this, and that!” All the while, they aren’t thinking that they won’t get anything if the MAN they require this and that from, doesn’t go to his local jeweler, put a few dollars down, and drop down to a knee and ask those FOUR LOVELY WORDS “Will You Marry Me?” I mean women can claim they hold the key because of the new age independence, more aggression in dating, and successes in the business world but at no time will a woman be able to start the journey towards marriage. Of course some will argue that if the woman doesn’t say yes then she is in control, but how many actually say no? It’s every woman’s dream to get married, even if they know the situation isn’t right, but even when they say no, how long will it be before another man asks her to marry him? Women can petition laws, demand higher positions in Corporate America, etc., but this my friend is something that women will never be able to take from the MEN. We hold the key to MARRIAGE bottom line #caseclosed. Thoughts?

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Leave you at the alter……

Sunday, August 7th, 2011

While sitting at the table eating breakfast this morning with friends, one of the ladies at the table got to talking about weddings, marriage, and cold feet. Men get cold feet, women get cold feet but the majority of the time those feet are telling the truth! Women are creatures who love the fact of being married, but at the same time hate to be embarrassed by not having the wedding at all. I mean just imagine having all your friends and family members spend their money on getting to the event, hotel rooms, rental cars, outfits, etc but then he doesn’t show up!!!! Yea that’s embarrassing, but what if he shows up but everyone in the building know’s that one of you isn’t in love. Awkward!!! I know that this is going to spark a big debate and every woman is going to be one sided on this, but I have to ask this question! Would you rather be left at the alter or have someone marry you that is not in love with? Thoughts??

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