Archive for March, 2012

One Night Stand…..

Friday, March 16th, 2012

Growing up we are judged positively or negatively on the fact that some/many of us have had a one night stand or two in our lifetime. The older we get the one nighters either increase or decrease depending on the lifestyle we live. As we get older, engaged, married, and climb the corporate ladder we start to miss the thrill of going out grabbing a cutie, taking him/her home, having your way with him/her and then you both go about your business.

Don’t think all of your past wild ways are done with just because you are now in a committed relationship! Now before you say where the hell is he going with this nonsense, “HEAR ME OUT!” Follow along:

You and your mate plan to go out for a night on the town in your sexiest attire and enter an establishment individually. You act as if you are unaware of one another once inside and start to enjoy the evening. All of a sudden after a few drinks you go over and tap your “unsuspecting” mate on their shoulder and greet them as if you’ve never met them before. After exchanging the usual info about one another to break the ice, you invite them over to the bar for a drink. The conversation gets interesting and the drinks continue to flow until you decide it’s time to make your move. Inform your new found boo that you would like to blow this joint and take this party back to your place. They agree, you pay the tab, grab their hand, and walk out with pride as everyone in the place is seething with envy because you have gotten “LUCKY!” Once you get home you go at your one night love like you have never before as it’s your 1st time ever together! Once your wild love making is over, you roll over laugh at one another, and say that was good now get your butt up and go home. Sleep in different rooms, wake up in the morning, and act like nothing happened at all!!!

It’s the INFINITE ONE NIGHT STAND!!!! Try it!! Thoughts??????

If you can’t love yourself how can you love me?

Saturday, March 10th, 2012

In a world of “It’s all about ME, ME, ME” I’m amazed by the number of people who do not love “ME”. How can you wake up every morning and not love “YOU”? You hear people say all the time that, “I love myself!”, or that, “I’m happy in my own skin!” but these same individuals will have people in their life or make decisions that doesn’t support their statements.

- How can you love “ME” when you do a drug that tears our family apart? Oh my bad, I forgot it’s an addiction and you couldn’t control yourself enough to tell whoever introduced the poison to you “NO”!

- How can you love “ME” when you start that Ponzi Scheme and destroy hundreds of family’s financially? Ok I get it; “YOU” love yourself so much and had to have everyone looking up to you financially so you rob for your riches!

- How can you love “ME” when you gamble all of the family’s savings away at the casino? Again, my bad the hand was the one to help you win all of your money back!

- How can you love “ME” when you only date men/women who beat on “YOU”? Right, he/she hits me because he/she loves me!

- How can you love “ME” when you marry someone who doesn’t care for his/her children? Ok, Ok, Ok I got you, the sex made you blind to this fact!

I can go on and on, but the bottom line is millions of people walk around this country “PRETENDING” to be people who they aren’t and cannot look themselves in the mirror and face the person they see. People love yourself for who “YOU” are regardless of what you want, or think you should be. When you come clean with yourself this will allow people to love the real “YOU” and not some made up character who will eventually be exposed sooner or later. Love yourself for who “YOU” are!! THOUGHTS????

Accept Who You Choose!!!!

Sunday, March 4th, 2012

When I woke up this morning, and checked to see what was going on in the social media world, one of my online friends had posted the following: “Boys choose video vixens, Men choose Michelle Obama’s.” – Anh Vu”

As boys growing up we always want the “Eye Candy” and select the women we pursue based on her body, look, and whether everyone stops to stare when we walk in with her. I know this sounds ridiculous, and I must agree that now looking back as a grown man I was once a BOY. Once I grew up and realized that “THE LOOKERS” were for the most part “Just That”, I could sleep better at night knowing that I could enjoy brains over looks.

The “Michelle Obama” types of the world will normally get overlooked until the boys turn to men and realize that those video vixens/lookers/dyme pieces are not the long term solution when you are looking for a serious relationship! I’m sure the boys who never paid Michelle any attention and instead went after the video vixens/lookers/dyme pieces are kicking themselves in envy right about now.

Fellas find your “Michelle Obama” and pass on the video vixens/lookers/dyme piece, because you will definitely be happier in the future!!! THOUGHTS?????