Growing up we are judged positively or negatively on the fact that some/many of us have had a one night stand or two in our lifetime. The older we get the one nighters either increase or decrease depending on the lifestyle we live. As we get older, engaged, married, and climb the corporate ladder we start to miss the thrill of going out grabbing a cutie, taking him/her home, having your way with him/her and then you both go about your business.
Don’t think all of your past wild ways are done with just because you are now in a committed relationship! Now before you say where the hell is he going with this nonsense, “HEAR ME OUT!” Follow along:
You and your mate plan to go out for a night on the town in your sexiest attire and enter an establishment individually. You act as if you are unaware of one another once inside and start to enjoy the evening. All of a sudden after a few drinks you go over and tap your “unsuspecting” mate on their shoulder and greet them as if you’ve never met them before. After exchanging the usual info about one another to break the ice, you invite them over to the bar for a drink. The conversation gets interesting and the drinks continue to flow until you decide it’s time to make your move. Inform your new found boo that you would like to blow this joint and take this party back to your place. They agree, you pay the tab, grab their hand, and walk out with pride as everyone in the place is seething with envy because you have gotten “LUCKY!” Once you get home you go at your one night love like you have never before as it’s your 1st time ever together! Once your wild love making is over, you roll over laugh at one another, and say that was good now get your butt up and go home. Sleep in different rooms, wake up in the morning, and act like nothing happened at all!!!
It’s the INFINITE ONE NIGHT STAND!!!! Try it!! Thoughts??????
Bobby M. Rouse has a background that’s as diverse as his personality. We often hear about the challenges faced by Black women when looking for Mr. Right. Bobby Rouse put Black women across America on alert when he proclaimed in Essence magazine that he finds it difficult to find his Mrs. Right even while living in a city with a plethora of educated, successful and got it together sisters that is Atlanta. For more information on Bobby, 

