Archive for May, 2012

Her 90 Days v/s His 90 Days….

Wednesday, May 16th, 2012

While browsing the net today, I came across the following:

“I’m a 30 year old successful man, no kids, never married! I understand that more and more women are using the 90 day rule before sex in which I have no problems with; however I wonder how would women feel if men placed a 90 day rule before I spent any money on you?”

My immediate reaction nearly made me spit my drink out onto my phone where I was reading this! Between being shocked and in total disbelief I was actually kind of proud that a man would make a statement like this!!! I mean come on, women of all races, ethnicities, and creeds have been using this “So Called Rule” on the male species for years. It just so happens that because of Steve Harvey’s book and subsequent movie “Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man”, it has been brought to the light that women actually play this cat and mouse game with the “CAT”. Women feel this is a way to test a man’s true feelings and desire for her without having a “PHYSICAL” relationship. Women do this as they know many men see “SEX” as the ultimate prize in a relationship, but at what cost? A guy can play the game for your “90 Days”, get what he wants then leave because 90 days isn’t enough time to figure anyone out, as we have all been in relationships for years and we still haven’t figured someone out!

So to this guys “BRIGHT” idea!!! Since women are playing this ridiculous “90 Day Challenge” with the guys in the dating game then why can’t guys hold on to their wallet for “90 Days”? It makes perfect sense! Women could keep what they know men desire for 90 Days and men could keep what women desire for 90 Days. I love this new rule, as “All is fair in love and war”! THOUGHTS???

Can Men And Women Truly Be Friends?

Friday, May 4th, 2012

I was talking to one of my friends this morning on my drive in, and we were having a discussion about whether men and women could only be “FRIENDS.” We are both married, and agree that only a small percentage of opposite sex friends have HONESTLY never crossed the line. We aren’t talking about the male “FRIEND” that you slept with in college, and now all of a sudden it never happened since you were at school in Chicago and now you reside in Orlando where no one knew of the relationship. And guys we definitely aren’t talking about the “FRIEND” who helped you through your break-up!

But what we do disagree on is this: Is it alright for a married person to become “FRIENDS” with someone of the opposite sex AFTER they are married? THOUGHTS?????