June 15th, 2013 Posted in Boys to Men, Dating and Relationships, Father's Day, Happy Father's Day, Holiday Sadness, Men vs Women | No Comments »
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT!
As Father’s Day 2013 approaches…. Yes it’s this weekend…. Of course no one is aware because you don’t see or hear commercial after commercial promoting it as if it were Mother’s Day. To speak for myself and the overwhelming majority of Father’s that I know, to us it’s just another day to us. I repeat “to us it’s just another day”. In this country there isn’t any respect for men who stand up and do the right thing for the children they jointly bring into this world. All you ever seem to hear is negativity when it comes to men and their children, so why in the world do a lot of women try to steal the only day that honors thy Father by telling another woman HAPPY FATHER’S DAY?
For me, this is where it gets disrespectful, trifling, ignorant, selfish, and downright stupid! First, you will never be a Father because you do not possess the moving parts to claim as such! Second, just because you chose to run this child’s Father away for your own selfish reasons, you still will NEVER be a Father. Next, it makes you look selfish and stupid when you willingly accept such a gesture – See moving parts reference! A lot of men would take in the child and care for them just as good as a mother, but again selfish women wouldn’t allow this out of pride. They fear that we just might do a great job in raising the child, therefore making you look less than a woman to your friends and family! I know several guys who are single Father’s and I’m sure they aren’t accepting HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY greetings and gifts, because they know for one they don’t have the moving parts and two they know that they are (FATHER’S) and could never be a MOTHER!
So to all of you women who want to claim our day as your own, “WE THE ONLY SPECIES CAPABLE OF BEING A FATHER “ask you to please stay in your lane. This is our day so swallow your sorrows if you have a sorry man in your life, just remember you chose him and regardless of what you think of him he is still the FATHER of your child. Look in the mirror or see a psychologist to understand why you feel as though this ignorance is even going through your brain. HAPPY FATHER’S DAY TO THE REAL FATHER’S, NOT MOTHER’S WHO WANT TO BE! THOUGHTS!!
April 29th, 2013 Posted in Accusations, Basketball, Boys to Men, Dating and Relationships, Gay Athletes, Jason Collins, Marriage, Men vs Women, Sex | 2 Comments »
Today Jason Collins of the NBA comes out as the 1st male athlete from a major sport to state that he’s openly gay. Big news I would agree, but some of my fellow athletes are taking this the wrong way. I understand that as a professional athlete we are supposed to be macho, tough, and love the ladies representing the epitome of everything “Manly”! But this is 2013 and for anyone who has taken time to pay attention, times have definitely changed. I know I know the 1st thing that you HOLIER THAN THOU Bible thumpers will point out is that “The Bible” says, “Being homosexual is a sin, and that marriage is between a man and a woman”. I grew up in the church and I totally get all of the Adam & Eve stuff but at the same time I feel that people are allowed to feel how they want to feel, love who they want to love, and marry who they choose to marry! Why is it that your employer will allow individuals to carry a “Domestic Partner” on their insurance? Or that Members of Congress are changing their stance in support of Gay/Lesbian rights because someone in their family has come out as being Gay or Lesbian?
Many of the top athletes currently playing have come out in support of Jason Collins. I know the support is because many fear the public backlash and loss of endorsement opportunities as the Gay & Lesbian community possess over $800 billion in annual spending power. So of course the top athletes who have not spoken will openly support this or stay mute on the subject. I applaud Jason for coming out especially since he is still an active player, and I’m sure there will be backlash from players on and off the court as expected. Then again I’m sure his endorsements (That will grow into the Lebron James category) will help him keep his cool when he’s taunted by opposing players. THOUGHTS?
April 17th, 2013 Posted in Basketball, Boys to Men, Denmark Tech College, Friends, Politics, Rutgers Coach, Theodore Chaplin | 1 Comment »
After hearing about the head basketball coach at Rutgers University getting fired for throwing basketballs at his players, I immediately laughed and said this must be a joke of some sort. I then turned to ESPN and saw what was described as a coach “ABUSING” his players. After I watched this I said, “That’s it?” and “They fired him for that?” For anyone who knew of or played for my former JUCO coach Theodore “Chap” Chaplin(Deceased), they would tell you we were pushed, shook, beat with a broom for each missed free throw in games, practiced for 3+ hours, and on top of that he made us run to the next town and back which was 7 miles away (Yes 14 miles total!) for a poor showing in a game the night before! Coach Chap as he was known was extremely tough on us, but he had our ultimate respect, attention, and it translated into WINS! He coached at Denmark Tech College for 37 years and finished with a record of 600 wins, and 117 defeats! Yes you read it right 600-117, and on top of that 3 undefeated seasons, with 28 CONSECUTIVE winning seasons! No one ever questioned his coaching style, complained to the NCAA powers to be, or went to the President of the school about his practices and how he handled the young men he coached! You know why no one through the years ever reported him? It’s because we weren’t SOFT like the kids who participate in sports now. Kids are so soft now and cannot even take being yelled at let alone have a ball thrown at them. I feel sorry for the coach, but in defense of the kids he forgot that it’s 2013 and winning would’ve kept this out of the media. He wasn’t winning, therefore any public/media outcry by a spoiled player or disgruntled former coach will get you FIRED ASAP! Coach Chap coached us hard there’s no doubt about that, but it made us all better MEN in life, and we of course our team went 29-4! Lol. Coach Bobby Knight same way – same results! Consistently winning is the key, but it’s called DISCIPLINE NOT ABUSE! THE GAME MISSES YOU COACH CHAP!!!! THOUGHTS?
December 14th, 2012 Posted in Connecticut Shooting, Gun Control, Politics, Sandy Hook Elementary School Shooting, School Shooting | 1 Comment »
Ok now this is getting beyond ridiculous!!!!! In the past week there have been 3 shootings that have made National and probably world news, the Belcher murder-suicide, the Oregon Mall shooting, and now this shooting of Elementary school kids in Connecticut! What in the hell is going on with this country and its love for GUNS and killing people that have nothing to do with your sick, cruel, twisted, pathetic ass!!! There’s one thing if you want to take your own life, but to take another human life because you are pissed off at the world is no excuse!! The shooting at this Elementary School has taken it too far!!! How in the world can you walk into a school and MURDER innocent children??
We have adults in this country screaming “We have a right to bear arms”, and “You won’t take away my guns”, etc, etc, but your same ideological thinking is causing incidents like this!!! How in the world is it this easy for individuals to gain possession of guns and commit this type of terror on innocent people, especially kids!!! I use to own a gun only after my home was broken into multiple time while I was living in Atlanta, even once while I was home in the bed, but that was the only reason I owned one!! I only had it for a little over a year before I decided to get rid of it LEGALLY instead of keeping it as GUNS make me nervous!! Police and Military are the only people who should be able to possess and carry guns, everyone else should turn them in as this is getting totally out of control!!! The U.S. is the only country in the world with issues like this with guns, and you want to know why? The majority of countries don’t allow their citizens to possess guns and of course they don’t have MURDER-SUICIDE’S like this gun loving country of ours!!!
This is so sad and my heart goes out to the families of the kids that were MURDERED today for getting up and happily going to school to learn, only to have their lives taken away by some idiot who had MAJOR issues!!! You my friend are the scum of this earth, and for any of you GUN LOVING, I’m mad at the world bastards that are looking to copycat this event, just do me a favor, put that gun to your mouth right now and take your OWN life instead of innocent people; ESPECIALLY KIDS!!!!
This is sick!!!!!