Archive for the ‘Boys to Men’ Category

I Applaud Jason Collins!

Monday, April 29th, 2013

Today Jason Collins of the NBA comes out as the 1st male athlete from a major sport to state that he’s openly gay. Big news I would agree, but some of my fellow athletes are taking this the wrong way. I understand that as a professional athlete we are supposed to be macho, tough, and love the ladies representing the epitome of everything “Manly”! But this is 2013 and for anyone who has taken time to pay attention, times have definitely changed. I know I know the 1st thing that you HOLIER THAN THOU Bible thumpers will point out is that “The Bible” says, “Being homosexual is a sin, and that marriage is between a man and a woman”. I grew up in the church and I totally get all of the Adam & Eve stuff but at the same time I feel that people are allowed to feel how they want to feel, love who they want to love, and marry who they choose to marry! Why is it that your employer will allow individuals to carry a “Domestic Partner” on their insurance? Or that Members of Congress are changing their stance in support of Gay/Lesbian rights because someone in their family has come out as being Gay or Lesbian?

Many of the top athletes currently playing have come out in support of Jason Collins. I know the support is because many fear the public backlash and loss of endorsement opportunities as the Gay & Lesbian community possess over $800 billion in annual spending power. So of course the top athletes who have not spoken will openly support this or stay mute on the subject. I applaud Jason for coming out especially since he is still an active player, and I’m sure there will be backlash from players on and off the court as expected. Then again I’m sure his endorsements (That will grow into the Lebron James category) will help him keep his cool when he’s taunted by opposing players. THOUGHTS?

Rutger’s Coach v/s My Coach

Wednesday, April 17th, 2013

After hearing about the head basketball coach at Rutgers University getting fired for throwing basketballs at his players, I immediately laughed and said this must be a joke of some sort. I then turned to ESPN and saw what was described as a coach “ABUSING” his players. After I watched this I said, “That’s it?” and “They fired him for that?” For anyone who knew of or played for my former JUCO coach Theodore “Chap” Chaplin(Deceased), they would tell you we were pushed, shook, beat with a broom for each missed free throw in games, practiced for 3+ hours, and on top of that he made us run to the next town and back which was 7 miles away (Yes 14 miles total!) for a poor showing in a game the night before! Coach Chap as he was known was extremely tough on us, but he had our ultimate respect, attention, and it translated into WINS! He coached at Denmark Tech College for 37 years and finished with a record of 600 wins, and 117 defeats! Yes you read it right 600-117, and on top of that 3 undefeated seasons, with 28 CONSECUTIVE winning seasons! No one ever questioned his coaching style, complained to the NCAA powers to be, or went to the President of the school about his practices and how he handled the young men he coached! You know why no one through the years ever reported him? It’s because we weren’t SOFT like the kids who participate in sports now. Kids are so soft now and cannot even take being yelled at let alone have a ball thrown at them. I feel sorry for the coach, but in defense of the kids he forgot that it’s 2013 and winning would’ve kept this out of the media. He wasn’t winning, therefore any public/media outcry by a spoiled player or disgruntled former coach will get you FIRED ASAP! Coach Chap coached us hard there’s no doubt about that, but it made us all better MEN in life, and we of course our team went 29-4! Lol. Coach Bobby Knight same way – same results! Consistently winning is the key, but it’s called DISCIPLINE NOT ABUSE! THE GAME MISSES YOU COACH CHAP!!!! THOUGHTS?

Drop Her Off At Work!!!!

Friday, August 3rd, 2012

On my way to work this morning, I stopped at the gas station and as I was getting out of the car I hear a couple arguing at the pumps over something that shouldn’t even be a conversation that early in the morning. The lady who is dressed in slacks, a blouse, and heels jumps out of the car slams the door and yells,

Lady: “Sorry mutha%$@&# you better find a job soon or else you’re a$$ is getting out of my house!”

Guy: Rolls down the window and screams, “You have been saying that s%$t for years and I’m still here!”

He then exits the vehicle and runs into the store behind her huffing and puffing. They come out still arguing.

Lady: “All you do is lay around all day playing a damn game and claiming you looking for a job!”

Guy: “Playing that game is gonna get me paid!”

I then proceed to laugh my a$$ off as I couldn’t hold it in anymore and apparently the guy hears me then says,

Guy: “See you got muthaf$#%@&^ out here judging me, you putting my business in these streets!”

Lady: “Business? I’m calling your mother and telling her you’re coming back for good after I get off work this evening!”

As I pull off, I start to think how can guys sit on their a$$ and feel comfortable not working!? True indeed it’s partly the lady’s fault for allowing him to drop her off to work, and then lay around all day doing absolutely nothing; but where is the guys heart, balls, and brain in this situation? There’s a job out there for him and some people will say the economy is bad but here in Houston that’s “NOT” a valid excuse. Fast food, lawn services, construction companies, and waiting tables are all options for people like this guy, but he’s too proud or just plain sorry to get off his a$$ and WORK!!!! I can’t stand PEOPLE who don’t want to work for a living!!! THOUGHTS!!!!???

Can Men And Women Truly Be Friends?

Friday, May 4th, 2012

I was talking to one of my friends this morning on my drive in, and we were having a discussion about whether men and women could only be “FRIENDS.” We are both married, and agree that only a small percentage of opposite sex friends have HONESTLY never crossed the line. We aren’t talking about the male “FRIEND” that you slept with in college, and now all of a sudden it never happened since you were at school in Chicago and now you reside in Orlando where no one knew of the relationship. And guys we definitely aren’t talking about the “FRIEND” who helped you through your break-up!

But what we do disagree on is this: Is it alright for a married person to become “FRIENDS” with someone of the opposite sex AFTER they are married? THOUGHTS?????

Accept Who You Choose!!!!

Sunday, March 4th, 2012

When I woke up this morning, and checked to see what was going on in the social media world, one of my online friends had posted the following: “Boys choose video vixens, Men choose Michelle Obama’s.” – Anh Vu”

As boys growing up we always want the “Eye Candy” and select the women we pursue based on her body, look, and whether everyone stops to stare when we walk in with her. I know this sounds ridiculous, and I must agree that now looking back as a grown man I was once a BOY. Once I grew up and realized that “THE LOOKERS” were for the most part “Just That”, I could sleep better at night knowing that I could enjoy brains over looks.

The “Michelle Obama” types of the world will normally get overlooked until the boys turn to men and realize that those video vixens/lookers/dyme pieces are not the long term solution when you are looking for a serious relationship! I’m sure the boys who never paid Michelle any attention and instead went after the video vixens/lookers/dyme pieces are kicking themselves in envy right about now.

Fellas find your “Michelle Obama” and pass on the video vixens/lookers/dyme piece, because you will definitely be happier in the future!!! THOUGHTS?????