Posts Tagged ‘dating and relationships’

I Applaud Jason Collins!

Monday, April 29th, 2013

Today Jason Collins of the NBA comes out as the 1st male athlete from a major sport to state that he’s openly gay. Big news I would agree, but some of my fellow athletes are taking this the wrong way. I understand that as a professional athlete we are supposed to be macho, tough, and love the ladies representing the epitome of everything “Manly”! But this is 2013 and for anyone who has taken time to pay attention, times have definitely changed. I know I know the 1st thing that you HOLIER THAN THOU Bible thumpers will point out is that “The Bible” says, “Being homosexual is a sin, and that marriage is between a man and a woman”. I grew up in the church and I totally get all of the Adam & Eve stuff but at the same time I feel that people are allowed to feel how they want to feel, love who they want to love, and marry who they choose to marry! Why is it that your employer will allow individuals to carry a “Domestic Partner” on their insurance? Or that Members of Congress are changing their stance in support of Gay/Lesbian rights because someone in their family has come out as being Gay or Lesbian?

Many of the top athletes currently playing have come out in support of Jason Collins. I know the support is because many fear the public backlash and loss of endorsement opportunities as the Gay & Lesbian community possess over $800 billion in annual spending power. So of course the top athletes who have not spoken will openly support this or stay mute on the subject. I applaud Jason for coming out especially since he is still an active player, and I’m sure there will be backlash from players on and off the court as expected. Then again I’m sure his endorsements (That will grow into the Lebron James category) will help him keep his cool when he’s taunted by opposing players. THOUGHTS?

Women in Relationships Listen Up!!

Thursday, November 15th, 2012

Alright you already know what time of year it is…… It’s HOLIDAY SEASON!!!! With this time of year comes joy, parties, friends, family, love, gifts, and of course DRAMA!!!!! While most men in the world can get along and make it through the Holiday’s without missing a beat, the ladies of the world cannot say the same…. I know, I know if you are a woman you are saying awwww here he goes again beating up on the females, but please hear me out….. During the Holiday season couples go visit one another’s family & friends, attend parties, and travel TOGETHER…. Nothing wrong with this right??!!! Right, but WRONG!!!! Even though the women in a relationship(married, engaged, girlfriend, new friend) are happy and have someone to go to events with, the SINGLE, JEALOUS, ENVIOUS, EVIL friend will find a way to throw a damper on your Holiday joy…. They will complain that you have no time for them, say, “Why didn’t you invite me to that couples only event”, talk down on anything you discuss during this time, all because they are MISERABLE & SAD that they do not have anyone to spend their Holiday season with…. They are nearly as low down as the SIDE CHICK, but they are the SIDE CHICK in a close friends clothing!!!!! I know I beat down the SIDE CHICKS during the Holiday season, but I think this type of woman is more of a threat than the SIDE CHICK, because she is close to you personally and knows how to RAIN ON YOUR HAPPY PARADE!!! Women in a meaningful relationship during the holiday’s, keep these LONELY, BITTER, & SELF CENTERED chics away from you and your HOLIDAY HAPPINESS!!!! LONELY, BITTER, SELF CENTERED single ladies please keep the NONSENSE to yourself until January 2nd….. Hopefully you can find someone to occupy your time by VALENTINE’S DAY!!!!

Insecure Or The Other Word???

Tuesday, October 9th, 2012

I was talking to one of my friends and we were discussing the reputation some women get (Based on financial status) if they sleep around with guy after guy, never marry, have kids, or commit to a relationship. As we were debating back and forth I told him that, “If a woman isn’t in a committed relationship regardless of how much money she makes, then why can’t she sleep with whoever she want, whenever she want?” His response, “Dude she can’t because she’s a woman, and we hold women to a higher standard than we hold ourselves.” I laughed at him and said, “What if she’s just insecure and is looking for love through sex, foreplay, or intimacy with a man.” He cut me off and said the following:

“Bobby you are playing CAPTAIN* with that insecure s%$#, IF SHE’S RICH THEN SHE’S INSECURE, BUT IF SHE’S BROKE SHE’S A WHORE!”

I dropped the phone laughing because I have never heard this phrase before, but apparently some believe there are different terms for women who are on different financial levels but sleep around. THOUGHTS????

*CAPTAIN = He’s insinuating that I’m trying to save women by saying some women maybe insecure for sleeping around.

Drop Her Off At Work!!!!

Friday, August 3rd, 2012

On my way to work this morning, I stopped at the gas station and as I was getting out of the car I hear a couple arguing at the pumps over something that shouldn’t even be a conversation that early in the morning. The lady who is dressed in slacks, a blouse, and heels jumps out of the car slams the door and yells,

Lady: “Sorry mutha%$@&# you better find a job soon or else you’re a$$ is getting out of my house!”

Guy: Rolls down the window and screams, “You have been saying that s%$t for years and I’m still here!”

He then exits the vehicle and runs into the store behind her huffing and puffing. They come out still arguing.

Lady: “All you do is lay around all day playing a damn game and claiming you looking for a job!”

Guy: “Playing that game is gonna get me paid!”

I then proceed to laugh my a$$ off as I couldn’t hold it in anymore and apparently the guy hears me then says,

Guy: “See you got muthaf$#%@&^ out here judging me, you putting my business in these streets!”

Lady: “Business? I’m calling your mother and telling her you’re coming back for good after I get off work this evening!”

As I pull off, I start to think how can guys sit on their a$$ and feel comfortable not working!? True indeed it’s partly the lady’s fault for allowing him to drop her off to work, and then lay around all day doing absolutely nothing; but where is the guys heart, balls, and brain in this situation? There’s a job out there for him and some people will say the economy is bad but here in Houston that’s “NOT” a valid excuse. Fast food, lawn services, construction companies, and waiting tables are all options for people like this guy, but he’s too proud or just plain sorry to get off his a$$ and WORK!!!! I can’t stand PEOPLE who don’t want to work for a living!!! THOUGHTS!!!!???

Can Men And Women Truly Be Friends?

Friday, May 4th, 2012

I was talking to one of my friends this morning on my drive in, and we were having a discussion about whether men and women could only be “FRIENDS.” We are both married, and agree that only a small percentage of opposite sex friends have HONESTLY never crossed the line. We aren’t talking about the male “FRIEND” that you slept with in college, and now all of a sudden it never happened since you were at school in Chicago and now you reside in Orlando where no one knew of the relationship. And guys we definitely aren’t talking about the “FRIEND” who helped you through your break-up!

But what we do disagree on is this: Is it alright for a married person to become “FRIENDS” with someone of the opposite sex AFTER they are married? THOUGHTS?????