Posts Tagged ‘side chick’

Women in Relationships Listen Up!!

Thursday, November 15th, 2012

Alright you already know what time of year it is…… It’s HOLIDAY SEASON!!!! With this time of year comes joy, parties, friends, family, love, gifts, and of course DRAMA!!!!! While most men in the world can get along and make it through the Holiday’s without missing a beat, the ladies of the world cannot say the same…. I know, I know if you are a woman you are saying awwww here he goes again beating up on the females, but please hear me out….. During the Holiday season couples go visit one another’s family & friends, attend parties, and travel TOGETHER…. Nothing wrong with this right??!!! Right, but WRONG!!!! Even though the women in a relationship(married, engaged, girlfriend, new friend) are happy and have someone to go to events with, the SINGLE, JEALOUS, ENVIOUS, EVIL friend will find a way to throw a damper on your Holiday joy…. They will complain that you have no time for them, say, “Why didn’t you invite me to that couples only event”, talk down on anything you discuss during this time, all because they are MISERABLE & SAD that they do not have anyone to spend their Holiday season with…. They are nearly as low down as the SIDE CHICK, but they are the SIDE CHICK in a close friends clothing!!!!! I know I beat down the SIDE CHICKS during the Holiday season, but I think this type of woman is more of a threat than the SIDE CHICK, because she is close to you personally and knows how to RAIN ON YOUR HAPPY PARADE!!! Women in a meaningful relationship during the holiday’s, keep these LONELY, BITTER, & SELF CENTERED chics away from you and your HOLIDAY HAPPINESS!!!! LONELY, BITTER, SELF CENTERED single ladies please keep the NONSENSE to yourself until January 2nd….. Hopefully you can find someone to occupy your time by VALENTINE’S DAY!!!!

Insecure Or The Other Word???

Tuesday, October 9th, 2012

I was talking to one of my friends and we were discussing the reputation some women get (Based on financial status) if they sleep around with guy after guy, never marry, have kids, or commit to a relationship. As we were debating back and forth I told him that, “If a woman isn’t in a committed relationship regardless of how much money she makes, then why can’t she sleep with whoever she want, whenever she want?” His response, “Dude she can’t because she’s a woman, and we hold women to a higher standard than we hold ourselves.” I laughed at him and said, “What if she’s just insecure and is looking for love through sex, foreplay, or intimacy with a man.” He cut me off and said the following:

“Bobby you are playing CAPTAIN* with that insecure s%$#, IF SHE’S RICH THEN SHE’S INSECURE, BUT IF SHE’S BROKE SHE’S A WHORE!”

I dropped the phone laughing because I have never heard this phrase before, but apparently some believe there are different terms for women who are on different financial levels but sleep around. THOUGHTS????

*CAPTAIN = He’s insinuating that I’m trying to save women by saying some women maybe insecure for sleeping around.

I’m Involved With Two Men And I’m Confused!!!

Wednesday, April 18th, 2012

So I receive another EXTREMELY interesting email from a female the other day, who is having a problem choosing between 2 men that she is currently dating. One has 90% of the qualities she is looking for and the other has only 80%. To me this sounds like a good problem to have until I press further for what the lacking 10%/20% actually consisted of!!!

FEMALE: Ok Bobby here is one for you, I can’t post it on my page but if you think the people will respond you can, but names have to be disclosed. It’s me.

MAN #1 – I am in love with someone that loves me but he is in a different kind of situation.

MAN #2 – Then there’s someone who loves me and worships the ground I walk on but I don’t love him. He buys me things, he is concerned for me and has 80% of what matters the most to a woman. The problem is that I’m independent, make my own money, and do for myself.

I was married to one man half of my life and now I feel like I can choose what I want before making a choice.

MAN #1 – The one that I love has 90% and I can deal with the lacking 10%, but the situation is sticky. Even though he has 12 of the things that I want in a man on my list of 14 things! LOL.

MAN #2 – The other 20% that he doesn’t have is a big deal to me!

BOBBY: Oh damn…. LOL…. OK you have to give me a little more…. What are the 80%/90% traits that you like? What is the 10%/20% that they are lacking?? You are hiding something! LOL.

FEMALE:
MALE #1 – Is lacking that he is in a sticky situation and we are both passionately in love to where we feel it in our gut.
MALE #2 – He is short, a mama’s boy, cooks, runs my bath water, lights candles, plays soft music for me and he has been alone too long! I think him doing all of this bothers me as I want to do some of the cooking, run my own water and take baths alone sometimes.

BOBBY: Let me guess, MALE #1 is an animal in the bed?

FEMALE: As far as sex…… WELL….. MALE #2 can but….. BUT MALE #1!!!! “OH MY GOD!!!”……….. Bobby it’s so much more exciting, when PASSION/TUSSLING ARE INVOLVED AND MANLINESS IS THERE AS WELL!!!…. LOL………. SOOOOOO……. What do you suggest???

BOBBY: MALE #1 is married isn’t he?

FEMALE: Bobby??????????????????????? I gave you most of the meat why, why, why???

BOBBY: I need the meat and the potatoes!!!!

FEMALE: Ok yes MALE #1 is married, but 10 years of lies and he is miserable. But luckily in a month he will be facing an empty nest with the children and that’s why he stayed, because of the children. I know it’s wrong Bobby but I love him, again I know it’s wrong. MALE #2 isn’t married but he has been twice and I just don’t love him, even in all he does, it’s just not there.

Something tells me to walk away from MALE #1, and I have tried (Not answer the phone, Changed my phone #, Moved). Something tells me that I know love different from lust or infatuation when you’re older and the ingredients say love. I know it’s wrong for a woman to love another woman’s husband, and the word says “What God put together let no man tear asunder.” Did they tear it apart? I don’t want to feel like “I did” for the rest of my life.
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So what do you think my friend should do??? SUGGESTIONS??? THOUGHTS????

He Hired His Mistress!!!

Sunday, April 15th, 2012

I’m sure by now that you all have heard about the Head Football Coach who while riding his motorcycle with his mistress had an accident and now he has been fired from his multi-million dollar a year coaching gig. Well there’s a whole lot more to this story! 1st I will start with the fact that he is 50+ years old and married with 5 kids. He hired the 25 year old (former volleyball player at the school he coaches) mistress to work in the football department in a position where she would earn right at $56,000/ year. On top of that, he gave her $20,000 out of his own pocket as a GIFT in which she turned around and bought a vehicle in her 1st week on the job! Now she has been placed on leave pending further investigation!

OK OK you are probably saying, “Bobby Rouse, why are you surprised as this happens ALL THE TIME!” You know what, you are right! But the thing about this that bothers me is the fact that he gave her that job and there were probably people who applied that were ACTUALLY QUALIFIED!!! It amazes me how people in positions to hire are allowed to place UNQUALIFIED individuals in positions that they clearly cannot function in!!! He deserved to get fired for being STUPID!!!! For real COACH? You hire your mistress??? Really??? DUMB ASS!!!!

READ THE ENTIRE STORY BELOW:

Petrino’s ex-mistress put on leave at Arkansas
By KURT VOIGT | The Associated Press – Fri, Apr 13, 2012 4:00 PM EDT.. .

FAYETTEVILLE, Ark. (AP) Arkansas put the former mistress of Bobby Petrino on paid leave Friday and disclosed that she used a $20,000 ”gift” from the disgraced former coach to buy a car in her first week on the job.

University spokesman Steve Voorhies said Jessica Dorrell, a 25-year-old football department employee, had been placed on leave but declined further comment, calling it a private personnel issue.

Dorrell, a former Arkansas volleyball player, was a Razorback Foundation fundraiser before she was hired as a student-athlete development coordinator by Petrino on March 28 at an annual salary of $55,735. She has not returned repeated calls seeking comment.

The move came as Petrino said he would not appeal his firing and seek any of the $18 million buyout that was part of his contract. His agent, Russ Campbell, sent an email to athletic director Jeff Long late Thursday saying Petrino had accepted ”responsibility for the events that led to the university’s decision to terminate his contract.”

”Coach Petrino and his family wish nothing but the best for both the Razorback football program and University of Arkansas,” Campbell wrote.

Petrino had the option to appeal as part of the seven-year contract he agreed to in December 2010. The contract was for more than $3.5 million annually and carried the $18 million mutual buyout clause in 2011 and 2012. The amount dropped over the life of the contract, falling to as little as $3.9 million in 2017.

Long said that Petrino was fired for cause, meaning the coach was not owed anything.

The 51-year-old Petrino was fired Tuesday for failing to disclose his relationship with Dorrell before she was hired, as required by conflict of interest rules at the school. The affair became public only after the two went for a motorcycle ride April 1 and skidded off the road, putting Petrino in the hospital and resulting in a police report that contained her identity.

Long has said the two were in a relationship for a ”significant” amount of time and phone records show they exchanged more than 4,300 text messages and nearly 300 phone calls over the past seven months, possibly including photo and video content.

The termination letter Long sent to Petrino was released by the school Friday and it had more specifics.

”(Y)ou deliberately failed to tell me that you had engaged in an extramarital affair with Ms. Dorrell over a period of several months leading up to your recommendation to hire her,” Long wrote. ”If you had been forthcoming with me about the true nature of your relationship, I would not have approved the hiring.”

Long also said Petrino ”admitting giving $20,000 cash to Ms. Dorrell as a ‘gift.’ Ms. Dorrell used the money to purchase a black Acura during the first week that she worked for the football program.

”Among other concerns relating to this ‘gift,’ you should have disclosed this fact to me … but you failed to do so,” Long wrote.

The athletic director ripped Petrino for ”poor judgment” and said that by lying to his boss and the public he had left the school with the task of ”restoring the reputation of our institution and our athletics programs.”

”I recognize that you are a very talented football coach,” Long wrote, ”but the university may not disregard your conduct or sacrifice its integrity, reputation and principles.”

As for Dorrell, it is unknown whether she will face the same fate.

In a March 20 letter Long sent to Dorrell offering her the job, he wrote that ”you should be aware that you will be held accountable for and must abide by University of Arkansas, Southeastern Conference and NCAA rules and regulations.”

The school, he added, ”expects integrity” and Dorrell was asked to comply with ”conflict of interest policies” among other things. The letter amounts to an ”understanding” that there are ”no agreements, whether written or oral, regarding your employment other than those contained in this letter.” The letter was signed by Dorrell.

A person familiar with the situation has told the AP that Dorrell had ”at one time” been engaged to another athletic department staffer, assistant strength and conditioning coach Josh Morgan. Voorhies said Morgan is still employed by Arkansas.

Story from Yahoo.com

Holiday Season = Side Chick Sadness

Sunday, November 20th, 2011

Well Ladies and Gentlemen it’s that time of year again, where the men and women who live on the side sulk, complain, make anonymous calls, and hide in their own sorrow. All year long these individuals run behind people they know are not into them or are clearly using them for whatever reason. They always claim to be done with the person who is either knowingly in a relationship, broke up with months ago, or just plain sorry.

Now it’s the holiday season and the time of year when the man or woman they are claiming as their own doesn’t invite them to the holiday or work parties and those oh so important family get togethers!!!

I love this time of year and it goes into high gear starting next week!!! I’ve got my bag of popcorn and drink ready to hear the stories!!!! Gotta love it, so sit back, relax, and watch the show!!! Thoughts??